Natural Curly Hair Help?

OK I have Natural curly hair but I call it frizzy hair, I've heard everything, not to brush your hair, so what do you use? I like it when my hairs wet because it shows off the curl but when it dries it gets messy like and the hair starts to get frizzy and I dont think its beacuse of the humidity. And I dont like gel because it leaves your hair stiff, when my hair dries it seems like it srinks, does that happen to anyone, when Its wet its almost half way to my back but when it dries its a tiny bit past my shoulders. Ive heard dont use shampoos with sulfates, silicones and some peolpe say dont even use shapoo at all just use conditioners ive tried a couple products but I see no improvement, I want to have hair like you see on the web,nice and soft

http://www.updoprincess.com/curly%20long%20hair%0styles%20example.jpg



Or like a good example Emmy Rosumms hair in POTO( I know its extensions...)

What would you guys suggest so I can love my curls



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usegel.it will give your hair theWETlook; even when its dry.Natural Curly Hair Help?
That same thing happens to my curly hair as well. But after i wash it i make a braid (not very tight) and let it dry like that. when its totally dry just loose it. it works! x
after washing your hair with Sunsilk De-Frizz shampoo and conditioner, leave in the conditioner for two minutes EXACTLY.

when you come out and your hairs damp, place your hair in a high ponytail.

then twist it into a bun and secure it with bobby pins or a hair elastic. 10 minutes later, spray in some TRESemme De-Frizz Spray.

when your hair's completely dry, let it out.

you have naturally beautiful curls.
it ';shrinks'; becuase when its wet it lengthens it. your hair isnt all the way curly when its wet, when it drys it is how your hair naturally is. the only thing to make it look how it does when its wet is to use a mousse or gel, i dont know what else you can use. also use a wide tooth comb while in the shower and then dont brush your hair when you get out of the shower, that will also help
I have hair like that so I went to the local beauty store and bought this stuff like oil, but not thick like oil. Its called hair pomade. Leaves your hair bouncy and adds life back to it. No heat syling that is what dries it out and makes it frizzy.
i have curly hair and i asked my hair dresser for advice and she gave me a cream type thing when your hair is wet and it RLY. works the product is by bed head
try to put mouse and none of your frizzness in it

just experiment with different hair products
You just explained my hair exactly. I hate my hair especially in the summer time. The only thing that helps somewhat on my hair is to use Aussie Moist Shampoo then I use Aussie 3 Minute miracle conditioner then after I get out of the shower I use either Pantene Leave in conditioner or This stuff made by Dove ( can't remember what it is called ) it is in a pump bottle and it's made for frizz, it works pretty good.

Also right after I get out of the shower I put my hair up and I leave it up for most of the day I will take it down when I go somewhere, but if I am just sitting around the house, It is always up, that way when I do take it down to go somewhere it still looks like it did when I got out of the shower.
that happens to me allot especially that i have bangs but i just put it on pony tails!^_^
Try washing your hair at night and then putting some gel in it. The gel won't be hard because you'll crush it in your sleep. If that doesn't work I've heard people say that you should wash you hair at night and then sleep with it wrapped in a silk scarf. Make sure that you use an extremely high grade of conditioner, one that is made for curly hair. For shampoo you should use one that is moisturizing because that kind of shampoo tends to weigh down the hair, making it flatter. Good luck! I'm sure you'll have perfect hair like Rossum in Phantom in no time!
If you use gel or mousse on your hair when its slightly damp, it will give your hair the 'wet' look even when its dry.



http://www.lynnechapman.com/images/curly
from a professional,

use shampoo and conditioner but when it comes to styling, use BIOLOGE CREME GEL.. it holds like a gel but softer.. it will not leave you hair crunchy and stiff. this gel will help hold your style and keep you away from frizz. on towel dried hair,(use a pick to comb your hair) use a dime to a quarter size. (depending on length) scrunch into hair like normal. finish with a light hair spray. you will be able to run you hands through your hair all day and have a style that is frizz free..

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