Thick curly hair help?

I am a guy, I have really dark thick curly hair and i cant ever seem to style it. it looks really bad, ive put hair spray or something like that called B and B and some professional hair gel. I try to comb it out with my fingers but it looks horrible and i don't know how to style it and i just give up and use a brush, but it just makes it frizzy. How can i comb my hair to make it look good? i use axe 2 in one hair and conditioner. I like to keep my hair down too.Thick curly hair help?
first if you towel dry it don't rub your towel on your head it will make your hair frizzie. Then once you get out of the shower only comb your hair will its wet and then make sure you get the curls back don't let your hair dry strait. Don't brush or comb your hair once its dry. If you can just brush your hair everyday before you shower. In the shower make sure you don't tangle your hair. when your hair is dry i would suggest not to put any product in it. Hope this helps!